November 17, 2008
For the past 2 months, I’ve kind of been ignoring the whole wedding planning thing. I’ve just been basking in the realization that I’ll be married in 10 months. Which I suddenly realized is less than a year. After being engaged for 3 years, I suddenly realized that running out of time could happen if I don’t start doing something.
Well, I still haven’t done much, but I’ve written down some questions for our venue owners. It’s a start, right?
My excuse for putting it off is that Jason and I are far apart, and it feels kind of wrong to do stuff without him. And while I’m guessing he’s too busy anyway with important stuff like grad school applications and Mother 3, I know I wouldn’t like it if he was making decisions without me. Fortunately, in this day and age, there are lots of different ways a couple with 3,000 miles between them can communicate without using a scrap of paper (love letters don’t count; that’s not wedding planning). 🙂
- Skype. Skype is awesome. Jason and I videochat pretty much everyday. You can use it for calling landlines, too, all over the world. I suppose there isn’t that much eco-friendliness to it, but if you’ve got an iSight mac, you don’t have to buy any extra equipment. And actually, if all you need is voice anyway, you can use an internet connection and not get a separate phone that you’d need to plug in. It’s a stretch, I know. But I did find my webcam (no iSight for me) for $5 on craigslist, saving money and reusing!
- Google Docs. This really is paper saving, and is ridiculously useful as a collaboration tool. Jason and I are currently working on our (much too long but we love everyone) guest list. Instead of making lots of paper lists and crossing things out and losing track, we’ve got one place we can both edit (and approve each others’ edits), and where we can eventually organize addresses and RSVP’s and so on. In the future, I may use it to help us organize/plan our invitation layout and the things we want on our registry.
- Our Credo Mobile cell phones. We were in the middle of a contract with Verizon when we just got fed up with their billing and their customer service. We contemplated iPhones, but it was going to be really expensive, and we happened to be saving for a, um, wedding. But I know I feel better with this decision. Not only did we save money (and they bought out our Verizon contract), but 1% of our charges go to various social and environmental causes, and they’re the only phone company to lobby AGAINST the FISA act. And they still are. But I don’t want to sound like a militant evangelicist for Credo (and their parent company, Working Assets) and really play up one choice over any other. I just think doing a little research into the impacts our choices have and don’t have can make such a huge difference. Yep, done now!
So, next up, I’ll be calling rental companies about tents and dance floors on my cell, tracking prices on Google Docs, and Skyping with Jason about options all at once…maybe not.
Also, anyone know of a good officiant on the Eastern Shore who would work with us and understand the green philosophy? Well, ’till next time, but here’s a picture of our caterer/friend Mark and his wonderful bread oven: